M’s Texlax Touchup Update

I’ve got to salute the bravery of M to try self texlaxing. This is something I haven’t dared to do despite the countless number of video tutorials I’ve watched. I’m sure I’ll have to someday as my hair gets longer cos I’m yet to meet the hair stylist who’ll be able to wade through without doing major damage.

I’ve been searching in advance and hopefully I’ll be able to reach one.

Hair Texlax Touchup Update
I texlaxed my hair at home this morning after a 16 week stretch. I tried the half on half method that I saw Jen from Just Grow Already use in one of her youtube videos, I used the ORS relaxer kit (normal strength) The pros were; I was able to apply and smoothen my hair in 12 minutes after which I rinsed off on time, I didn’t suffer any setback or get a near heart attack caused by ignorant stylists. and best of all my hair was wonderfully texlaxed even though i did not get the typical saloon results after i flat ironed (I put the flat iron on low heat).

The cons were; I got some water on the untextlaxed hair underneath my shower cap while i was rinsing off the first half of my hair (I will ditch the half and half method and look for another texlaxing method) and the process was a bit messy (I guess it was as a result of me being very nervous about relaxing my hair myself for the first time in my life).

Attached are pictures of my hair,one is from January, while the other was taken today, I cut off about half an inch last week and I intend to dust my ends next week.

Last length check (Jan. 2014)


April Touchup length check


Ladies you can see how M has been able to retain length over time. Retention is the name of the game & once you’re consistent with your hair regimen, it’ll be much easier to achieve your length goals.

Readers’ Q&A

20131020-142918.jpgQ: How do I Choose the Best Deep Conditioner?

A: The best deep conditioner is generally devoid of silicones, waxes and drying alcohols while rife with humectants and hydrating ingredients, mostly from natural plant sources. Light proteins, such as wheat protein, soy protein or silk amino acids, are often in high-caliber deep conditioners in small measures because they enable the hair to absorb moisture better. Hard proteins like animal proteins and keratin are often not recommended by most beauticians because they can dry out hair strands. A true deep conditioner will not simply sit on the outside of the hair shaft, but will possess molecules small enough to penetrate to the cortex.

Effective humectants for deep conditioners include honey, propylene glycol and glycerin. Moisturizing alcohols like cetearyl, lauryl or myristyl also appear in these products. Moisturizing alcohols are fatty alcohols and do not dry out hair in the same way as isopropyl alcohol or propyl alcohol, which should generally be avoided, according to beauticians. Hydrating ingredients such as aloe vera, wheat germ and olive oil are often staples in the best deep conditioner.

Cyclomethicone and dimethicone are two of the most common silicones found in ineffective deep conditioners. Silicones are often avoided by seekers of moisturized hair because they coat the hair cuticle, thereby creating a smooth, shiny appearance that suggests healthy, moisturized hair. No moisture can penetrate the shield of silicones, however. Scientifically, the molecules of cyclomethicone and dimethicone are too large to be absorbed by the hair; instead, they sit on top of the hair strand, generally blocking the penetration of water and other ingredients. The same is true for waxes like petrolatum and mineral oil, which are widespread in conditioners, yet lack the ability to penetrate.


The best deep conditioner has ingredients that are hydrolyzed. Hydrolyzed ingredients are those in which the molecules have been mechanically broken down to a micro-size that can be absorbed deep in the hair strand. Most daily leave-in or rinse-out conditioners do not fully penetrate the hair shaft. They are designed to work quickly by coating the hair and relieving tangles until the next day’s wash. A deep conditioner, generally designed for weekly use, will need 15 to 20 minutes to penetrate and require a form of heat for maximum moisture.

Heat sources, whether plastic wraps heated by body temperature, electric heating caps, bonnet dryers or steamers, often are used in combination with deep conditioners to encourage maximum penetration and effectiveness. Deep conditioners are generally used on freshly washed hair that has been air-dried or towel-dried lightly. Using deep conditioners on unwashed hair, however, is effective for some, provided the hair is not overly dirty and is washed immediately after conditioning. The best deep conditioners rinse clean, leaving behind no build-up or artificial shine enhancers.